The group of nurses I worked with in ICU were like family and a very special group with lots of compassion. For many of us at the time, we had smaller kids at home and it made it all so real……I always loved my patient as did they but this one was ever so special.
Very well written article. Unfortunately i have read far too many like them. My sister was a pediatriac nurse, and then the head of pediatric’s in Albany. I remember her telling me about going into a room and crying. I understand why.
Yes, I am sure she has many stories to tell about kids that had been abused. Like I said, I was not cut out to be a pediatric nurse because I have carried this story as others I worked with for many years…….none of us could even grasp how a grown man could do this to such a precious little one. This story is a perfect example of the ugliness that dwells in some people’s hearts!!!
Tears while I read this….Love and prayers for all those who care for these children in these conditions. The public rarely realize what nurses and those in the medical field deal with every day. God bless them every one…And as for Angel, I”d like to think her days are spent above with those she was named for.
From the time she left us I believe her days were filled with the love and joy she so deserved as a child. Many of us will NEVER forget caring for her.
This is a very sad article that not only points out the horrifying facts of child abuse, but also the sorrow felt by those nurses taking care of these little patients. The heartache nurses must feel while they tenderly clean and watch over these abuse patients. And many times watch them go to Jesus. Well written. It pulls you in.
Thank you Sandy. It is a very sad article but it is one that depicts the horrific deeds that adults can do to children, each other or the elderly and it’s also a fact. Although I know the hospital would have given Counseling if we would have asked……those were the days that nurses just “gutted it through”……She will NEVER be forgotten by us that took any part in her care.
Beautifully written article about a hard subject matter. Child abuse is something people do not like to read about, but Linda has shared her experience in a personal way that allows the reader to understand that nurses are often placed in roles that are difficult but necessary. Angel’s body needed to be cleaned and loved, but her soul had passed to Jesus. By the nurses respecting her body they honored this little girl. Maybe for the only time in her life. How admirable.
This kind of abuse happens too often. Linda, your article is a beautiful tribute to this poor little girl, and a reminder to teachers, neighbors, social workers, to be vigilant in reporting or investigating suspected abuse.
Brought all too familiar tears! Well written, Linda! As a former teacher/ support services worker, Angel’s sad situation is much too common. God bless the little children and all those who care for them!
Yes……I agree Tammy!!! Teachers and social workers must see this so much……I would hate to be a witness to any of it and have my hands tied! What we saw 30 years ago was too much!!!
Linda: I am glad to be able to let you know what an outstanding job you did at writing this article. I was so moved with the true story of this precious child who suffered at the hands of these evil people. I hope you continue to write and show us the real stories from your experience as a nurse. Thank you for sharing this article and being willing to give of your time to write these articles. Blessing to you for being such a kind and compassionate nurse.
Linda , a strong, touching and educational article on child abuse one of our nation’s must serious public health problems. Thank you for sharing this informative article.
As a Child Crisis and CASA volunteer I have seen first hand children abused physically, psychologically , sexually and neglected .
It’s hard to believe things like this actually happen but I know that they do. Thanks for having the courage to share this story. It made me tear up and I don’t do that.. I hope any sibling, parent, neighbor or relative that has an inkling that something like this might be happening to a child will come forward and do the right thing….
and…….that is what it’s all about Darrell…..getting people to speak out. Unfortunately, for Angel, her aunt tried but was unsuccessful. Child protective services tried…..but they too could only go so far. Hopefully this is a wakeup call to someone out there to do something or be more aware. Thank you for your comment!
Oh my dear lord……How can these things happen to our Littlest Angels……I could barely finish the article for tears….Thanks to Linda Dawson for her writing and the awareness….well written…..
Such a moving story. I always enjoy reading Linda’s articles. She has a way of making you feel like you are part of her story.
Thank you Beth….always appreciate your comments !
Linda, so well written! This story brought tears to my eyes, thank you for your unending kindness to your patients!
The group of nurses I worked with in ICU were like family and a very special group with lots of compassion. For many of us at the time, we had smaller kids at home and it made it all so real……I always loved my patient as did they but this one was ever so special.
Such a sad, but moving article. Writing was excellent !
Yes, it was true & sad. Many of us in ICU will never ever forget that little one……
Very well written! Sad and true. No, I will never forget.
Vickie is one of the nurses I worked with and she can attest that we all were badly shaken with this case. We will never forget Vic….
Linda, so well written, it brought tears to my eyes!
Thank you Lori!!!
Very well written article. Unfortunately i have read far too many like them. My sister was a pediatriac nurse, and then the head of pediatric’s in Albany. I remember her telling me about going into a room and crying. I understand why.
Yes, I am sure she has many stories to tell about kids that had been abused. Like I said, I was not cut out to be a pediatric nurse because I have carried this story as others I worked with for many years…….none of us could even grasp how a grown man could do this to such a precious little one. This story is a perfect example of the ugliness that dwells in some people’s hearts!!!
Tears while I read this….Love and prayers for all those who care for these children in these conditions. The public rarely realize what nurses and those in the medical field deal with every day. God bless them every one…And as for Angel, I”d like to think her days are spent above with those she was named for.
From the time she left us I believe her days were filled with the love and joy she so deserved as a child. Many of us will NEVER forget caring for her.
This is a very sad article that not only points out the horrifying facts of child abuse, but also the sorrow felt by those nurses taking care of these little patients. The heartache nurses must feel while they tenderly clean and watch over these abuse patients. And many times watch them go to Jesus. Well written. It pulls you in.
Thank you Sandy. It is a very sad article but it is one that depicts the horrific deeds that adults can do to children, each other or the elderly and it’s also a fact. Although I know the hospital would have given Counseling if we would have asked……those were the days that nurses just “gutted it through”……She will NEVER be forgotten by us that took any part in her care.
Beautifully written article about a hard subject matter. Child abuse is something people do not like to read about, but Linda has shared her experience in a personal way that allows the reader to understand that nurses are often placed in roles that are difficult but necessary. Angel’s body needed to be cleaned and loved, but her soul had passed to Jesus. By the nurses respecting her body they honored this little girl. Maybe for the only time in her life. How admirable.
This kind of abuse happens too often. Linda, your article is a beautiful tribute to this poor little girl, and a reminder to teachers, neighbors, social workers, to be vigilant in reporting or investigating suspected abuse.
EXCELLENT…..thank you for reminding us all of that Sharon!!!
Unfortunately, is correct my friend! This was 30 years ago and was such a shock for us then………
Brought all too familiar tears! Well written, Linda! As a former teacher/ support services worker, Angel’s sad situation is much too common. God bless the little children and all those who care for them!
Yes……I agree Tammy!!! Teachers and social workers must see this so much……I would hate to be a witness to any of it and have my hands tied! What we saw 30 years ago was too much!!!
Linda: I am glad to be able to let you know what an outstanding job you did at writing this article. I was so moved with the true story of this precious child who suffered at the hands of these evil people. I hope you continue to write and show us the real stories from your experience as a nurse. Thank you for sharing this article and being willing to give of your time to write these articles. Blessing to you for being such a kind and compassionate nurse.
Thank you Bunny……I will NEVER be able to express the grief that happened in that ICU from the nurses who cared for her…..
Linda , a strong, touching and educational article on child abuse one of our nation’s must serious public health problems. Thank you for sharing this informative article.
As a Child Crisis and CASA volunteer I have seen first hand children abused physically, psychologically , sexually and neglected .
Thank you for sharing your story of an angel .
Thank you Elise and so proud of you working with CASA!!!!!
Well written article, Linda. I could feel your pain and compassion through your words.
Thank you Ann for your comments and for being such a faithful reader!!!
It’s hard to believe things like this actually happen but I know that they do. Thanks for having the courage to share this story. It made me tear up and I don’t do that.. I hope any sibling, parent, neighbor or relative that has an inkling that something like this might be happening to a child will come forward and do the right thing….
and…….that is what it’s all about Darrell…..getting people to speak out. Unfortunately, for Angel, her aunt tried but was unsuccessful. Child protective services tried…..but they too could only go so far. Hopefully this is a wakeup call to someone out there to do something or be more aware. Thank you for your comment!
Oh my dear lord……How can these things happen to our Littlest Angels……I could barely finish the article for tears….Thanks to Linda Dawson for her writing and the awareness….well written…..